There Are Things We Can't Know
My son was diagnosed with a rare genetic eye disorder after his 4-month well-child visit. I went to that appointment hoping to see that his weight was getting closer to the norms for his non-adjusted age, like we did every visit since he came home from the NICU. I thought we were past the hard stuff. I left with a referral to a pediatric ophthalmologist, who squeezed us in the next day. Then he referred us to a specialist since what he found was beyond his specialization. There’s only one pediatric retinal specialist in the entire pacific Northwest. Within two weeks of that well-child visit my son was scheduled for surgery with that surgeon. Under anesthesia they found what they expected—he has a rare genetic disorder that causes retinal detachment, which in turn can cause blindness. The surgery was an attempt to stop its progression and minimize the damage to his vision. He had surgery on each eye a week apart from one another to minimize how much time he was under anesthesia.